7 Practical Tips for Buying Land and Starting a Homestead

We want to share the things we’re most grateful for on our new property—from the moments we celebrated to the lessons we learned. Our hope is that by sharing our experience, you’ll feel encouraged to take your own leap, even if the path ahead isn’t entirely clear.

1. Take Action Despite the Unknown

The truth is, we didn’t have it all figured out when we bought this land. If we had waited until everything was perfect, we might still be stuck dreaming instead of living it. With $60K in hand—$35K for the land and $25K for setup costs—we took the leap. Most of those funds went into purchasing and renovating our RV.

We didn’t anticipate all the costs of trenching, building a driveway, putting up fences, or setting up electrical. But had we known, we might have hesitated. And sometimes, a little ignorance is a blessing. It’s like having kids—you’re never completely ready, but once you take the plunge, life grows richer in ways you never imagined.

Takeaway: Start with a vision, but stay flexible. Taking action, even if it’s imperfect, will always move you forward. Don’t let fear keep you from the life you’re meant to build.

2. Choose Simplicity Over Perfection

We didn’t go for the dream property with endless acreage. We bought what we could afford with cash, and that choice gave us freedom. It’s not the biggest plot of land, but it’s ours. We’re not burdened with debt, and that alone has brought us so much peace.

Takeaway: Don’t wait for perfection. A smaller property within your budget can still give you the life you dream of—without the financial strain.

3. Find Community and Support

We couldn’t have done it without the kindness and wisdom of our neighbors. One neighbor with years of homesteading experience gave us advice that shifted our perspective when we felt overwhelmed. That encouragement made all the difference.

Takeaway: Build relationships with your neighbors. Their support, stories, and insights will guide you through the challenges and joys of country living.

4. Love the Quiet Life

After years of city living, our quiet gravel road feels like a retreat. The kids can play without the constant worry of speeding cars. The stillness brings peace we didn’t know we needed.

Takeaway: If privacy and peace matter to you, prioritize a location away from busy roads. The quiet moments will be some of your most treasured memories.

5. Take Pride in Practical Improvements

Adam’s first major project was building a perimeter fence—a simple yet transformative step. It brought security for our kids and pets, privacy from the outside world, and a sense of true ownership. Every post we put in the ground reminded us that this land was ours.

Takeaway: Start with what brings you peace of mind. A secure space will make your new property feel like home.

6. Embrace Off-Grid Resources

Having our own well and septic has been a blessing. Gone are the days of unexpected city water shut-offs. Knowing we have a reliable water source and a self-sufficient setup gives us confidence.

Takeaway: If you’re moving off-grid, plan for emergencies. A backup generator or rainwater collection system can be a lifesaver.

7. Celebrate the Little Wins

Every step, even the tough ones, brought us closer to the life we wanted. There were long days, especially when Adam worked on the property after his day job. It wasn’t easy, but the progress, no matter how small, kept us going. Now, we’re not just surviving anymore — we’ve made it through the toughest times. Transitioning and building our property, along with fixing up the fifth wheel, took an entire year before it was livable in the way we needed it to be. That year was hard — we barely saw each other. But looking back, it paid off.

Takeaway: Give yourself grace. Progress isn’t always immediate, but with patience and perseverance, you’ll see your vision come to life.

Final Thoughts

Your homesteading journey won’t be without challenges. But those moments will shape you, strengthen your resolve, and deepen your gratitude. Every decision, from choosing a location to putting up a fence, brings you closer to the life you’re building.

So, if you’re on the fence about taking the leap, consider this your sign. Trust yourself. Start small. And remember, the best time to begin is now.